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Oliver, 61 y.o., South Africa, Cape Province
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First name: Oliver
Age: 61
Location: South Africa, Cape Province
Zodiac Sign: Leo
Weight: 66kg
Height: 170cm
Eye colour: Grey
Hair colour: Dark Blonde
Body type: Slender
Smoking Frequency: Never
Drinking Frequency: Occasionally(Socially)
With information:
Do you have children?:
20 y.o. boy, not provided
18 y.o. boy, not provided
Language:
English 5 (Fluent)
Marital status: Divorced
Want children: Undecided
Education: Graduate degree
Job title: Self-employed
What religion do you practice?: Buddhist
Preferences
Age: 25 - 45
Weight: up to 54.48 kg
Height: up to 170 cm
Eye colour:
Hair colour:
Is it okay if they have children?: Yes
Body type: Slender, Average, Muscular
Smokes: Never
Drinks: Occasionally(Socially)
Ethnic Preference:

Responses to some questions

How would you describe yourself?
Outgoing, dynamic, friendly, warm hearted, generous, sensitive, empathetic, sensual, self conscious, determined - sometimes stubborn, curious, positive, hard working
How would you describe your ideal partner?
That is probably one of the hardest tasks. One thing is for sure, she must be attractive and confident, independent, yet partnership oriented. I need a woman, who has the tendency to make more factual decisions than me, who can hold me back in those instances when I am going too far with my enthousiasm for certain projects or my desire to overcome social rules, one who is good at managing money and who is more structured than me. On the other side she must be open minded enough to accompany me to social events and sensual enough to enjoy an exciting love life. She should be a rather unconventional person, who can give me some space, but not too much, which would make me feel unimportant. In conflict situation she should have a cooperative approach although she should know her values and not give in every time. In summary, an intelligent, self-conscious, well structured person, who is able to give me enough freedom to be myself.
Difficult? Not really, if you are the right person....
If you knew the world was going to end in 30 days, what would you do?
Travel to a beautiful, remote place and enjoy life
If you had 10 million dollars to spare, what would you do with it?
Buy a house in Constantia, become involved in social projects, enjoy sports regularly (gym, mountainbiking, running, swimming), travel a lot
How often, and from whom do you ask advice?
At least once a day, my family and closest friends and business partners
What quality do you value most in the people of your gender?
Honesty, engagement, intelligence, integrity, constructive problem solving, team player, good sport
What quality do you value most in the opposite sex?
Intelligence, self esteem, constructive thinking and cooperative behaviour, self discipline, versatility, strong debater
What is a recent prominent event in your life, and how has it affected you?
Came back from a 1.5 year stay in Madagascar
What is the best advice that you give to your children?
Be yourself in all that you do.
What has produced the biggest impression (shock) on you?
The fall of the Berlin Wall, the view from Table Mountain, my brother's death
The last books that you read?
Paulo Coelho - Viktoria decides to Die
What are your goals now?
To meet the woman of my life, who I can trust and spend the rest of my life with;
To make my current project (launching a German newspaper in South Africa) a great success
Whom do you admire?
Mahatma Ghandi, Nelson Mandela, Johnny Clegg, Michael Gorbatschow, Helmut Schmidt, my grandfather Leo
Do you have a lot of friends?
No; true friends are always rare; but I do have a lot of acquaintances.
What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?
Macho behaviour, "sleeping around", tackiness, extreme show-offs
Stupidity, lack of initiative
What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?
Unfounded jealousy - it's a sign of lack of self confidence
Lack of respect
Behaving as if the partner is owned
Stupidity, lack of initiative
What would you like to change in yourself?
My ability to choose the right people
What are your weaknesses?
Too spontaneous, too generous, use too often my intuition instead of my head
What are your strengths ?
Educated, genuine, open minded, a gentleman
How do friends view you?
Friendly, sociable, likeable, a good father
How do acquaintances view you?
Dynamic, intelligent, courageous, tenace, charming
What are your favourite games?
Board games; sports like table tennis, badminton, football, basketball
Who are your favourite writers and poets?
Paulo Coelho, Eugene Ionescu, George Orwell
What kinds of music do you like?
Rock, Pop, Dance Music, Santana
What is your favourite food?
Sushi, Indian, Chinese, Italian, Cameroonian
What are your favourite films?
When a Man Loves a Woman, Titanic, Pirates of the Caribbean, Message in a Bottle
What is your favourite fairy-tale?
The Hare and the Turtle
What is your favourite activity or hobby?
Sports like jogging, mountainbiking, table tennis, badminton; Hiking in the mountains and forests; Reading; Playing board games; Being with friends; Meditating
What is your dream job?
Entrepreneur - the dream came true
Tell us about your dream partner.
You...
Where do you want to live?
Constantia (close to Cape Town)
 
Do I enjoy gardening?
Don't mind helping
Do I enjoy grocery shopping?
I love it
Do I enjoy other types of Shopping?
I love it
Do I enjoy cooking?
I love it
How often do I like to go out?
Twice a week
Do I enjoy dining out?
I love it
When it comes to TV
Opt for a movie
When it comes to money
I spend it when I've got it
Describe myself at a party as a
Life of the party
Keep my space
Always clean for company
Ideally I would like to live in a
house in the suburbs
Preference for pets
I have Cats
What type of television programs do I enjoy watching most?
Cartoons, Sci-fi, Sport, News, Nature/wildlife, Mystery/thriller, Game shows, Films, Drama, Documentary, Current Affairs/Debates, Comedy, Action/Adventure
I enjoy spending free time
Doing something athletic, Curling up with a good book, Having lunch with a friend, With family, Watching TV or a movie, Dancing in night clubs, Playing on the computer
Activities that I enjoy
Biking, Hiking, Dancing, Jogging/running, Swimming, Walking
Sports that I enjoy watching and/or playing
Auto racing, Football, Olympic sports, Soccer, Tennis
Forms of entertainment that I enjoy
Dance clubs, Dinner parties, Fine dining, Bars/pubs, Board games, Concerts, Fashion events, Movies, Museum/arts, Classical music, Jazz music, Rock music, Reading, Wine tasting
Other hobbies or interests
Family/kids, home improvement, motorcycles, philosophy/spiritual, photography, travelling, astrology